Awesome topic! For my 2 cents...

Do you equate proper dictation with Dominance? Why, or why not?

Absolutely not! I equate proper diction & other literary competence with intelligence & the ability to actually communicate with others effectively.

Do you see honorifics as a necessity? Why, or why not?

Absolutely not! I have no problem giving respect to those who have earned it, none whatsoever. But so far, I've only ever met possibly 2 men that I would address in such a manner. Obviously there could be more but I don't offer up empty platitudes. With that said, I do try to avoid outright rudeness unless it’s been appropriately provoked.

Do you find a strong personality to be a turn on or a turn off? Why?

Turn on, totally! I like guys that can express an opinion, defend their point of view & offer a reasoned argument. It doesn't mean I'll agree, of course, but at least be able to present your case.

I guess overall my thoughts are that being well spoken, articulate & expressing your opinion is just a reflection of who you are, not whether you're dominant or submissive. I'm very much the same way. As long as you're comfortable & confident in who you are, others’ comments shouldn't really matter unless they’re the people whose opinions you choose to consider important.