LOL, I am still trying to figure out what I am and to what extent. As people learn, people change...I am also in the process of experimenting with some things, that not so long ago I would have sworn I couldn't do. I am not trying to fit myself into some predetermined mold, just trying to find out what fits me.

I especially like psychological aspects of BDSM, its something that interests me very much...and when a topic interests me so much, I have a tendency to try to learn about it as much as I can and ponder on it...until I can reach satisfactory conclusion and let it be what it is.


Right now I am trying to pinpoint the correlation between submissive and subordinate. When I say that I am submissive, but that I am not a submissive person...the reaction I usually get is "you are not (real) submissive".

Before coming to the Library I never equated submission to subservience.....but I am reexamining that now, because sadly terminology matters. Thus my question...Does submissive necessarily means subordinate?