Quote Originally Posted by maddie
I've been finding it a little difficult lately to really let go and allow myself to get into a scene. Usually, though not always, I'm able to let myself go and get caught up in what's going on. I can fully submit both physically and mentally. But lately, I've been finding that my brain isn't quite as willing to go there.

I don't feel like I want to be a Domme, but I'm concerned about not being able to get into "sub mode", for lack of a better term. We're in the midst of getting ready to move, so there's some stress, which could play a part in it, I guess.

Anybody ever have this happen? Any suggestions?
The time I find that happens is when I have had a particularly successful time at work, which has normally always involved me being assertive in addition to being just being strong. I can find it hard to come down from that high, but usually a few well chosen gentle words and a certain look flicks me over into sub mode.

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