we got reputations? sweet, hope mine is a good one. no really regardless of our wants and desires, regardless of how we live, even if it's squeaky clean, people will look up anything on a celebrity/official/or spokesperson. best thing is go once or twice, make contacts, and leave it at that, and work off the contacts. the people you meet once they are in you rtrusting loop generally will do what they can to work with you and help keep your reputation, but if it's a real main concern you might even watch out for that as anyone specially the ones we trust with our secrets may blackmail you into all sorts of dumb things, even into servitude. oh wait, submissive is already covered. hm maybe something else you wouldn't want. anycase. just be careful.