bambina:
I totally understand where you are coming from.
Especially since I am in school to become a history teacher someday.
My own mother doesnt even know my kink and i am her home care provider!
Let alone the rest of my family or the people I work and go to school with in the vanilla world.
Though the girls at the strip club (who I see as half-vanilla) and my gyn are in on it (no way to keep the gyn out of my business really) lol.
Other than here, the rest of the world has no business knowing my sexual "business"; if you know what I mean vanilla or otherwise.