Let us see, to explain without rambling! Ah! I already am! >.<

The name is Grayson AKA Mr. Tomcat. Been involved in the lifestyle, knowingly? For about three or four years. My Girlfriend (tommiecat is her name on these forms. Hey you!) and I are involved in the lifestyle. She is collared by me online and we live a hybrid online/offline relationship (I suppose that would be the terminology). Soon to be 100% real life as well (yay!). As you can probably tell I am a fairly laid back person with a unique personality.

I am very multi-sided. My mood can change depending on the situation at hand (good or bad, you decide). I tend to make a lot of side notes (like this) when I am utilizing an online medium for communication so please be aware of that. xD

Pretty much open for anything that comes my way I guess. Always willing to share my opinion. (sometimes when it isn't needed...so bare with me!)

Not really going to get into my kinks and what not...since well, it's an ever growing list! Also they tend to stand out when you converse with me. So I am sure you will pick things up as you do so. I have my own views on what BDSM is as I am sure everyone else does as well. No surprise there!

Other then that I am a fun, easy going life-styler! Feel free to send me a PM or say hey in the chat room!