Frusterated :30:

[IAmCanadian]

Let's try this again.

TotallyMoi, without addressing any specific reply you've received, I just want to say that you shouldn't doubt the validity of your sadness. Online interactions are as real and valid as offline interactions and often serve as the basis for eventual "real life" contact. There is no clause in the social contract that dictates a man shouldn't be held accountable for promises or statements made via computer. Your relationship isn't any more or less serious and worthy of empathy or consideration than any other on earth, online or otherwise.

Communication is communication is communication. He lied to you- and now you have to figure out the next step. Don't take it lightly, but don't automatically rule him out, either- he may have been scared of hurting your feelings, or had other reasons for which you might be able to forgive him, if he's able to re-earn your trust subsequently. If that's not the case, though, then you have to make the right choice for you and not let yourself get treated poorly.

There are plenty of doms out there who will make you their one and only shining star.

- FS

[shayna{L_D}]

Let's try this again.


Communication is communication is communication. He lied to you- and now you have to figure out the next step. Don't take it lightly, but don't automatically rule him out, either- he may have been scared of hurting your feelings, or had other reasons for which you might be able to forgive him, if he's able to re-earn your trust subsequently. If that's not the case, though, then you have to make the right choice for you and not let yourself get treated poorly.

There are plenty of doms out there who will make you their one and only shining star.

- FS

I think he did a little more then lie, he cheated in a way also. Having two subs in secret is a form of cheating. He lied to her about NOT having any other subs when he really did, in retrospect.

I do however agree with your reply. Online relationships sometimes are the backbone to a real life relationship. I know countless people on this site in fact that have done the whole online thing then moved to real life. Does this mean the she should rule him out, bc he lied and cheated? Thats up to her, like i said above, i dont let any man treat me that way anymore. Oh you lied becuase you didnt want to hurt my feelings?? Didnt you think that lying and cheating were going to crush me when i found out? Maybe if he was scared to hurt her, then i could see where lying about having two subs, then cutting one off, to spare her feelings, then telling her the whole story. Thats where he could have saved himself but he didnt. He know it was going to crush her, but he kept doing it anyway. But like i said, i do agree with your reply.