I don't know much, but i know that from a VERY young age, i was taught that you WILL respect other people's homes and property. And this was from the most vanilla parents a subbie can have!!! Forget the BDSM concept for a minute. Was the girl raised in the woods???? And i would also have to agree with MasterDragon that she should have gone with her Dom when He left. My parents also taught me not to shirk my responsibilities off on someone else! And guess what??? At the tender age of 41, i not only REMEMBER these lessons, i teach them to my children so they would NEVER embarrass me, or themselves like that. And being as how i'm sure she is aware that she cannot be punished by anyone but her Dom, she may have felt like she had a free pass to act like she did.

However, again agreeing with MasterDragon, i would think that such an extreme behavior issue could be a cry for help for some problem that she doesn't feel comfortable talking about. Unfortunately, i tend to think if it were an underlying imbalance, she would not be able to control herself while her Dom is close by and go completely the opposite way when He left. If her imbalance is that severe, it would almost certainly have to appear even if He were around. Of course, this is just my opinion. And as Ozme said.......the girl could just be a brat or an attention seeker. Perhaps she was very upset that her Dom left her in a situation that she may have felt uncomfortable in?? (i am not aware of the background or how close everyone is), and instead of speaking with Him about it, chose to act out (again very much a childlike response, but not impossible).

*shrugs* Whatever her reasons behind her actions, they were totally inappropriate and definately deserve a punishment that would insure that they do not happen again *thinking that i don't even have a Dom and would have friends that would punish the HELL outta me for being so rude!* I feel sorry not only for all of Y/you that were subjected to it, but also for her Dom that has to deal with it and i'm sure many other issues with His sub.