Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Tomcat View Post
The subbie's dominant left and the subbie started to act totally out of control. Name calling, pushing, shoving, grabbing...

Basically like a little kid. Now I know maybe she was 'playing' but this is not the way to act (or at least thats my view). The dominant (whose house we were at) asked her to stop several times and she didn't. So he (acting out of sheer annoyance I think) told her to gather her things and leave (she had her own car).

So this brings up my question to you all. If a submissive is at someone's house and their dominant leaves. Should they still be required to respect others? I am asking this from a BDSM perspective, not common sense.

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This is rotten behaviour, and IMO the owner of the house was totally correct in showing her the door.

It sound real weird, and if this was really an attempt to get attention and be 'punished', then the correct way is to deny that (as it would otherwise be reinforcing that kind of behaviour) and to throw her out.