Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Tomcat View Post
Well I have a bit of an update!

Turns out the poor girl just wanted attention and hopefully and punishment since her owner had conveniently banned her from having intercourse with him for a whole month! Not really sure how she figure that if she behaved bad that we would give her sex...but non the less. That is her alleged 'reasoning'.
She is not the only one. I have encountered this type before. Provocation is a game to play with those who are into it, not something you foist on other people. People do it to Force you to interact with them, and that is the last thing one should do. I have experienced subs who crash a BDSM party with very set rules, and basically behave like maniacs, upset the rules and spoil the party for a lot of people. And a lot of Doms reacted to it, so that that behaviour was rewarded, while all the subs who went by the rules and behaved was ignored. How stupid can you get???

At a fem domme party I was at we had one type like that, and he was expelled from the venue - promptly!