Rant...

[TheseDays]

Amen!

All well and good. But if, as some here, you have had your fill of this kind of behaviour which does spoil things for people who are more considerate, you might be less analysing and more acting to protect others.

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

Being submissive is not a license to behave like a maniac, and there is no excuse for it, period.

[blythe spirit]

All well and good. But if, as some here, you have had your fill of this kind of behaviour which does spoil things for people who are more considerate, you might be less analysing and more acting to protect others.

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

Being submissive is not a license to behave like a maniac, and there is no excuse for it, period.

All well and good; however, she was asked to leave so, others were protected. Whilst her behaviour was immature, people (who are ill-equipped emotionally) do not act out without a reason. Pin-pointing the reason (as fantazmaster suggested) and discussing it until resolution is had, is the only way this type of behaviour will cease.

No one has the right to behave like a maniac, or to disrupt other's lives, but when they do - more than likely - there is an underlying cause. Perhaps, if her Dom cares about her, he will take the time to learn why she did what she did and determine what action need be taken so that it never happens again, even if it means counselling.

For some reason after reading fantazmaster's post, I saw a child acting out for attention. To me that's just sad and is a cry for help. Unfortunately, some of us have aged, but not matured. And criticism doesn't help an emotionally unhealthy person to mature.

[sinderella]

So this brings up my question to you all. If a submissive is at someone's house and their dominant leaves. Should they still be required to respect others? I am asking this from a BDSM perspective, not common sense.My opinion is that one should always be respectful of someone else. Regardless of if they are allowed to act in such and such a way.

Thoughts, comments?

they absolutely should be required to not only respect others, but conduct herself appropriately at all times because she is an extension of her Master and a reflection on him. pleasing and respecting her Master does not just mean in the bedroom.

[leo9]

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

This was a writer in the sex magazine "Forum" on the subject of awful-subs-I-have-known, describing how a friend brought his new slave who played up like a hyperactive child (including trashing his VCR), and excused it by saying (one imagines a cute pout and wiggle) "I wanted to be naughty so Daddy would punish me!"

[blythe spirit]

This was a writer in the sex magazine "Forum" on the subject of awful-subs-I-have-known, describing how a friend brought his new slave who played up like a hyperactive child (including trashing his VCR), and excused it by saying (one imagines a cute pout and wiggle) "I wanted to be naughty so Daddy would punish me!"

And that confirms what I said about "attention seekers" who do not know how to go about getting the attention they need in a constructive manner.