words, actions or both?

[DiablosLittleOne]

Have you asked him directly if he is slowly pulling himself away from you? Or why he is "absent" from you? He may have good reasons for not being available right now, it may be a lesson to you. My only advice to you is to keep an open line of communication. Tell him how you feel and ask him what his intent is.

Good luck.

[sinderella]

Have you asked him directly if he is slowly pulling himself away from you? Or why he is "absent" from you? He may have good reasons for not being available right now, it may be a lesson to you. My only advice to you is to keep an open line of communication. Tell him how you feel and ask him what his intent is.

Good luck.

yes. in fact i have told Him 'goodbye' twice to spare myself, and both times He blocked it and pulled me back, saying He was unbelievably busy at the moment...and told me not to let my imagination run away with me, that i belong to Him, etc.

i think He wouldn't pull me back if He didn't want me, He would accept the goodbye, and gladly...but i can't help but feel that He has found a new interest (person) who occupies his attentions, while i wait until we can be together...i mean, He is supposedly traveling alone so why not message me...even one tiny one....my last message to him was 'i love u ----- xox', which received no reply. i think that deserved a reply. i don't 'keep score' like this...but i am in love and girls in love are known to be too sensitive...at the same time, i just want the truth rather than living in a fog...it is a bad feeling. don't worry about hurting my feelings...i asked for your thoughts and opinions and i am willing to listen to them. as it is now, i feel like i am looking at one of those magic 8 balls and it says 'All signs point to yes'. i would rather let Him go now before we get even farther down the path because i think the pain would be insurmountable if this occurred after investing more of myself in Him.

thank you very much for your comments. i appreciate them.