It may surprise you, but I'm secure in my dominance too (so much so that I don't need to emphasise it with capitals), which is why I don't feel it's undermined by the fact that I also can enjoy submitting.
It's not clear if this was addressed to thir or to switches in general, but either way it reads as offensively patronising. Once again: being a switch does not mean being "confused".Do not be confused. Take your bewilderment as an opportunity to explore life.
Why ill-wish her (or us)? I'm sure every switch would agree that they would be diminished if they lost half their sexuality.Perhaps one day you will be One or the other but until that time take what life gives you and live it to the fullest.
You might as well assure me that perhaps one day I'll recover from being bisexual and settle for either men or women.