Dating 'vanilla'

[wonderworld]

one more thing I have found... there are some very dominant guys in vanilla world... some that are dominant in general, but not in a sexual way... vice versa... There are some self proclaimed "Doms" in bdsm world that do not seem Domly to me... I dont seem submissive to most of them... what I'm saying is, for me, I still have to do the dating dance.

But I dont feel bad anymore for being confusing to some vanilla guy and not being able to explain what went wrong... hurting someone's feelings... I hated it. Relief!! Finally!!

It helped that I took some time to figure out what I thought would work for me and am finally ok with that. The hard part then became- where are they?? Now its back to the wining and dining that I so love!! I am a woman. I need food, water, compliments, and wine! Not WHINE.... I highly recommend taking this to real life if that is what you want. JUST BE CAREFUL. Be careful. And then be more careful...
Its so nice to be nervous on dates again! Well... some of them...

[jeanne]

Its so nice to be nervous on dates again! Well... some of them...

Amen!

Now that I've been on a couple of non-vanilla dates and become more involved in my local BDSM community, I've decided that I'm not interested in dating vanilla. At least not for right now. I have limited time for dating and don't want to waste that time on dates with people that I highly doubt are Dominant. And I'm most definitely not interested in "growing a Dom" out of a vanilla guy. Tried that and swore never again.

And underneath it all...I'm just a greedy, greedy girl.

[tessa]

Hell, I knew you paid. And now that I know how you think, I wanna have lunch with you, too. lol

All you are imagining...and so much more.

And underneath it all...I'm just a greedy, greedy girl.

LW

[jeanne]

LW

I've decided I prefer LS, chickie!

[tessa]

I've decided I prefer LS, chickie!

~hands you a dictionary/thesaurus~

Semantics, shemantics.