Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
I think she's exactly right.



In my opinion, I think it's just vanilla society's way of 'excusing' what submissives do. They simply cannot comprehend that someone would find this personally gratifying without some traumatic underlying reason.

Thanks for sharing this, damyanti! I'm sure it will provoke lots of interesting discussion.
yeah xD I don't really get why I have to have suffered from something to be submissive xD I have never had any kind of trauma, I had a great childhood, I kissed a boy when I was 16, fooled around and knew I was into bondage when I was still young... but it was all very innocent, lol. Nothing wrong here!