Quote Originally Posted by Flaming_Redhead View Post
I'm curious as to how many of y'all have tried to reconnect with someone and what the outcome was. Were you able to change behavior patterns that were problems in the past or was it the same song, 2nd verse, a little bit faster and a little bit worse?

okay ill bite. Yes i have, every single one of my exes that i fell in love with (2) got more then second chances. And no you cannot change behavior patterns. You break up with them, then get back with them, when you get back with them they are on their best behavior for fear that if they arent you'll leave them for not "changing" or "growing" as a person. Once, the relationship progresses and you two stay together then the same patterns come back, like clockwork. This is just from my expierence. Its hard to let a love go, sometimes it takes moving away (as i did) or just changing your whole routine and or group of friends, but sometimes personal sacrfice is what is needed to save your sanity.But everyone is different and so is every situation.

All i can say to you Redhead is good luck girl. You know what you are walking into, maybe hes changed for the better, maybe you have changed for the better and now you two can work well togerther. Who knows.