I want to thank Robert and Lucy for the useful posts about the meaning of "vanilla". I also have got valuable information from denuseri in private messages. My real problem was whether I fulfilled my "About Me" right or revealed again how stupid I was. I am, of course, just I don't like if it shows. :-) I am telling there about my love relationships, while I can see that other people are telling about their non-sexual interests, as reading, music etc. Denuseri has assured me that it goes both way. Confirmed by Robert's and Lucy's posts, I leave it as it is. Thanks again for your kindness.