I myself am monogamous. To the extent, this is purely me, that I have my online sub, and no one else online or IRL. Why? I want other women, now, before, I will in the future. But that is not why I am a Dom. How can one be expected to be good at anything they do with too many things to deal with? Now, this is not a generalization, but my sub causes so many....problems...with not listening and so on. How can I be expected to have more than one. And why would I want more than one? Anything beyond one is just lustful. And while Lust is one of my problems, monogamy is something that I find, for myself, is the right choice.