Wonder what the fuss is about...couple of years back I read a news that in an Indian (South Asia) village a girl was married to a dog and village elders supervised it...some time early this year another news appeared that an American lady formally sought permission from the owner of a Dolphin and formally married the dolphin in Israel...black and whites...or same sex is all human to human thing...here r the things gone much advanced (liberal or broadminded!)...may be it is time to move over...let every one do what they want to do...and let them be happy ... wish could add to it "as long as they don't make some one unhappy", but the reality will remain that some one will be, if not many. So who's right we should protect? What should be done? Create media movements, street demonstrations? Till the unhappy world acknowledges that all living beings have equal rights? anyone can marry anyone?...I feel not comfortable with such debates as I consider such media as a force to, a subtle but more deadly and effective then the brute force (both can result the same…brute force can force some one to do something which s/he was unwilling to do, media force can also do the same, rather in the later case the media has taken away even the resistance / reasoning power of the one who eventual did that s/he was never interested in doing at the first place! Why to change any one’s view by force? I have my own views and I have lot of respect for them for they have developed overtime with ground research. Similarly, I have respect for others for they have all their reasons for their views. They have the right to reject mine as I have the right to reject theirs, but that should be the limit. No force. Differences become conflicts when force is involved, and it hurts. It is time to live with harmony, accept differences and try and avoid to be on the same place if can’t live with it. If children, parents, friends or partners decide to do something that breaks their ‘former’ loved ones, well the ‘loved ones’ need to learn their new position in the eyes of their children or parents or partners - choice is now with them either to accept ‘new position allocated to them and remain in the circle or reject and move on and continue with their own circle without the parents, children, concerned friends or partners. Amputation is painful, but sometimes it is the only solution to live on, so be it!

And yes I agree, it is better to invest time in things which are of more significance to a society or a nation or the world, then two individuals...