P-Spot

[SilverWulf]

*shivers as I remember the first time this was found*

While every man is different, it shouldn't be too hard to find the right spots to play with.

There are three different spots that I know of, the terminology often gets confused and used interchangeably.

First is the prostate gland itself. The easiest way to find this is to insert a finger into the anus with the lucky guy laying on his back. The prostate will be anywhere from one to three inches inside on the upper wall. With the pad of a finger, press gently upwards while stroking back and forth. When you find it you will feel a definite roundish area that is somewhat harder than the surrounding tissue yet slightly spongy. Normally, it is about quarter sized or a bit smaller. Once you find it stroke and press the gland and the surrounding area with varying pressure to see what your guy likes. If this is new to him, the initial exploration won't last long before he explodes. Just for fun, the prostate can be milked... cum without orgasm if you will. Be careful with this, as it can inhibit sexual desire for a few days depending on how thorough the milking is.

The second spot is what I have heard referred to as the 'male G spot'. Often, some people will confuse this with the prostate, but they are two distinct and different spots. To find this, first find the prostate and then go a wee bit deeper, above and behind the prostate. Depending on individual anatomy it may be hard or even impossible to locate without causing pain. If you get to the right place you will feel a pea sized bundle of nerves, and your guy just might cum without warning.

The third spot is what I have heard referred to as the 'P-spot'. It is a sensitive area of the perineum. The perineum is that expanse of skin below the scrotum and above the anus. There really isn't any anatomical reference to make finding this spot easy, so just explore the area until you find a place that is more sensitive than the rest. What this spot actually is, is still under debate. Some say it is a distinct bundle of nerves similar to the second spot, others say it is just indirect stimulation of both of the above spots. Whatever it is, it is good and should be found!

For extra credit, locate the second spot while flattening your finger along the prostate, at the same time apply pressure to the correct area of the perineum all while sucking on the lucky bastard you are doing this to, and be prepared for a huge mouthful and a very happy guy.

[blythe spirit]

There really isn't any anatomical reference to make finding this spot easy, so just explore the area until you find a place that is more sensitive than the rest.

Very informative post SilverWulf; however, the above statement is a prime example as to why we need a subject upon which to experiment. *eyes you*

[SilverWulf]

Very informative post SilverWulf; however, the above statement is a prime example as to why we need a subject upon which to experiment. *eyes you*

I will allow some 'experimentation' the next chance I get, and have her get back with you. *winks*

[aussiesubgirl]

I will allow some 'experimentation' the next chance I get, and have her get back with you. *winks*

Please do!!!

[blythe spirit]

I will allow some 'experimentation' the next chance I get, and have her get back with you. *winks*

We don't want words, we want video - a live demo! hehehe Would you please be so kind as to have her tape the event?

[aussiesubgirl]

We don't want words, we want video - a live demo! hehehe Would you please be so kind as to have her tape the event?

Great idea blythespirit!!

[damyanti]

found this:

First we need to locate the prostate! Just like looking for the g-spot, if a man is laying on his back and you insert a finger into his anus (please make sure your fingers are clean and use lubricant), you only need to insert to the second knuckle and then feel towards the belly button. Unlike the g-spot, when you find the mans prostate, you will feel the gland. It’s a small, round bulb about the size of a large walnut.

Now that we’ve found this wonderful gland let’s talk about stimulating it, otherwise known as milking the prostate! There is a special finesse to stimulating this gland, unlike the g-spot which is stimulated as long as you can find it.

Gently massage it with a light waving motion along it’s sides, taking care not to press hard on the central area, where the sensitive nerves are located.

The person being stimulated may experience a sensation that may feel like they need to go to the bathroom although they don’t have to. Try not to let this affect you, and continue with the process.

After a few minutes, the prostate gland may be stimulated enough for ejaculation to occur.


I think I may have been mixing it up with perineum, so now I want to find that too?

Interested how does this affects Dom/sub dynamic...i.e. how do you incorporate it into play?

P.S. the girls are right...the visual demo would be nice

[satisfied]

We don't want words, we want video - a live demo! hehehe Would you please be so kind as to have her tape the event?

LOL! I'll think about it! If SilverWulf doesn't object. *evil grin*

[satisfied]

I will allow some 'experimentation' the next chance I get, and have her get back with you. *winks*

Gladly Sir. I will make a complete report whenever you say! *WG*

[aussiesubgirl]

*shivers as I remember the first time this was found*

While every man is different, it shouldn't be too hard to find the right spots to play with.

There are three different spots that I know of, the terminology often gets confused and used interchangeably.

First is the prostate gland itself. The easiest way to find this is to insert a finger into the anus with the lucky guy laying on his back. The prostate will be anywhere from one to three inches inside on the upper wall. With the pad of a finger, press gently upwards while stroking back and forth. When you find it you will feel a definite roundish area that is somewhat harder than the surrounding tissue yet slightly spongy. Normally, it is about quarter sized or a bit smaller. Once you find it stroke and press the gland and the surrounding area with varying pressure to see what your guy likes. If this is new to him, the initial exploration won't last long before he explodes. Just for fun, the prostate can be milked... cum without orgasm if you will. Be careful with this, as it can inhibit sexual desire for a few days depending on how thorough the milking is.

The second spot is what I have heard referred to as the 'male G spot'. Often, some people will confuse this with the prostate, but they are two distinct and different spots. To find this, first find the prostate and then go a wee bit deeper, above and behind the prostate. Depending on individual anatomy it may be hard or even impossible to locate without causing pain. If you get to the right place you will feel a pea sized bundle of nerves, and your guy just might cum without warning.

The third spot is what I have heard referred to as the 'P-spot'. It is a sensitive area of the perineum. The perineum is that expanse of skin below the scrotum and above the anus. There really isn't any anatomical reference to make finding this spot easy, so just explore the area until you find a place that is more sensitive than the rest. What this spot actually is, is still under debate. Some say it is a distinct bundle of nerves similar to the second spot, others say it is just indirect stimulation of both of the above spots. Whatever it is, it is good and should be found!

For extra credit, locate the second spot while flattening your finger along the prostate, at the same time apply pressure to the correct area of the perineum all while sucking on the lucky bastard you are doing this to, and be prepared for a huge mouthful and a very happy guy.

Great information and spectacular imagery! I can't wait to try this on my Man next time I see him....oh god, Friday can't 'cum' fast enough for me now!!