Role advice

[TwistedTails]

i have been experimanting with BDSM for a little while now, i have always thought till now i knew what i was and was definate about my role in my relationship as a dom. however the more i have been reasearching the lifestyle the more i have found i enjoy certain pain aspects like candlewax and wipping, i have always thought of these as sub based activities and as a dom i am unsure as to weather it is ok for me to like these things,

can i get my sub to inflict pain on me and still be the dom or have i become a switch and should give my sub some control

You can like anything that pleases you. It does not make you any less "Dom" but, you MUST talk to your sub if you expect them to carry out the task. They may not be able to deal with your request. Communication really is the key in your situation as it changes the boundaries of the power exchange.

Just my 2 cents.