Seriously though...

Red flag for me:

1. Someone who is incapable of admitting when they're wrong. Or when they do - they are grudging about it.
2. Someone who has no sense of humor.
3. Someone who is weak.
4. Someone who comes across a certain way - but will deny it when asked about it.
5. Someone who tries to Dom every sub that he/she encounters. Basically, shows a lack of respect.
6. Someone who says they will 'fix you'. I am an adult, thank you, and I will manage my life myself. If there is any 'fixing' to be done, I will see the appropriate qualified professional.

Okay, this is turning into a rant. I haven't been here long in the grand scheme of things, and don't do chat, but I pay attention... and have seen some pretty awful relationships. And some really awful Doms.