Thank you, the thing is I already lead a (what I would consider) a busy life, I have a unique job that is more fulfilling and more challenging than anything I have come across. I am not looking for this to be my life but at times it seems the only way in is to have it as the centre of it all. How do I find a person when I am up against people willing to give up everything to be with them, and I cannot make that sacrifice.

It may just seem like whinning, but it is something I can not see a way around. I am working abroad and it is coming to a close in a few months, It is tricky to find a relationship knowing things will end soon, so I am waiting till I return home before I start to look. I just feel maybe It is time I tried a relationship along these lines but am not sure how to find one.