Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
Soft limits should be tested. If it is something you have never done, but are curious about, go ahead and try it.
Thank you very much, Arria. Now I can see that I must try it. If only to prove to myself that I am not a coward. Your whole post is very clever and educative, but the quoted sentence is decisive.

I hope I will be able to show Lila new things she can do with me. :

It is very interesting that there are subs who aren't masochists. Do they enjoy being controlled?

Thanks again.