i acturally dont mind, ive been out on dates, vanilla and bdsm related type dates. Ive gone out with Dominants in a vanilla setting, because we werent in a dungeon or play party or munch. I dont think i could do another vanilla relationship so what would be my point in dating a vanilla man? There is a vanilla man who wants to get closer to me, become abit more then i would like, hes a sweet man but not something i am looking for in a partner. My Daddy is very Dominant, we have our ups and down but our foundation besides trust, communication and all that good shit, is D/s. I am his sweet little submissive while hes my sweet Daddy. I dont think i could ever go with a vanilla man but never say never. I know what i want and what i am looking for, and if that person doesnt hold any of those qualities then i know it wont work, because i will get bored and i know i me..