Clamps on the clit?

[yama]

i'll take a certain amount of pain and look forward to it but thats not the whole me. it just makes up a sweet part, so yeah i totally agree with with Oz said!

I understand you perfectly. I think I am different, but I can say that I am not happy with the pain itself but with the humiliation. The feeling that I am at the other's mercy, that she can do with me what she wants.

It never occurred to me or to Lila that we might use a safeword or signal. I only read about it later. Last night I had no worry at all that it might hurt too much. My concern was that I might scream with pain, making her stop the torture. Apart from this, I felt perfectly safe in her hands.

You will understand how important was for me eliminating that fear, my first fear in BDSM, about having clamps on my clit. It ceased completely.

Thank you and thank everybody. A very humble and very happy thank.



Yama