It is very interesting read your messages and see different question which I hope can answer bit at time.

I start at background. I brought up in Japan and have normal Japanese type upbring. My parent quite strict and traditional. This include my father he have spent time in war in army in China. He did nor speak much of experience. In Japan our history view is differ from maybe history as written in other country. I think now I live in west that perhap his experience not one he want to speak about but he remain very proud Japan and very strong in view of nationalism. This maybe something you not appreciate and please excuse I not wish sound racist but traditional Japanese view is not favorable for mix race. We suppose stay within our own race. Also Silke comment on differ attitude Gemany and Japan for role woman and man. This connected with our tradition.

Many century past Japan is woman dominated country I think call matriarchy. but after much war and violence it become male dominate through bushi and samurai tradition. Women expect by man to be and require be below men and attitude still exist particular older generation.

For much history there many civil wars in Japan and woman are often treat badly by man. Some our tradition rope bondage from this era and is way men try dominate and humiliate woman. This particular use break spirit defeat leader and their noble womens. If leader capture before able do seppaku or suicide then winner use bondage and rape for means humiliate loser. It tradition for this be to secure loser and for wife and sometime daughter be tied and given for much repeat sex use by common soldiers before husband eye. Often make husband mad but also often be so much sexed woman die. say this because this is type thinking that Japan men were educated in so they see woman as lower class and even way for humiliate husband in extreme circumstance. It change now but in my childhood this very much way think. Girls nice but boy is strong and must be leader.

I go university in Tokyo and do degree in economy. At university it is time I very mix with other woman similar level. Some they want simply get degree and be eligible get good prospect husband. Other tthey talk about tradition and make me also think this. Perhap this is time I start become more bit rebel and decide I not like idea marry Japanese husband.

Excuse I get quite exhaust write in English. I try write about relationship with husban soon and next.

Think for wingsofanangel question about when first he talk domination and submission it not really so like that but is evolutionary relationship and for Silke I also wonder if there are thing in Japanese tradition which not in favour multi racial but has tradition make woman take sex from many men if ordered.

i like hear from you and differ opinion.