Quote Originally Posted by flying66{Zinsho} View Post
DowntownAmber and leo9 I suppose that is the exact issue I feel like I'm having... that I can't have vanilla sex... even when He tells me we are.
Since you're not posting this behind his back, he must know that you have to turn it into violation in your head in order to enjoy it. So you're doing it the way he wants in order to please him, like a good sub; what's not to like?
hm... what is it like for 'nilla people when they have sex? how does one not feel like they are being violated when a cock is being thrust inside?
I guess it's the difference between letting in a guest and having an intruder kick down the door. And people who don't like having guests do experience every visit as an intrusion.