words?

they say a picture is worth a thousand words, but I for One.. prefer the thousand words. I would much rather read the description and have My imagination fill in the gaps, rather then an explicit photo. Shrugs, but hey, thats just Me.

more to the point though, words can be very powerful. They can make one soar, or make them crash and burn. The use of derogatory terms, can do both. The trick is NOT to have a Dom simply use them, without first understanding the other. To understand when.................calling her a bitch in heat (for example) would make her soar.... vs... when it would make her crash....


That basic understanding... is called a foundationi and is required of any relationship. Is it not?


-Odysseus