Just words?

[yama]

Okay, that's hot. I like to do that too - saying "oh, you poor dear"

And does your girl enjoy it, Sir? Mockery can be more devastating
than the pain itself or the offensive names. I think the personal
element is very important here - as it is shown in other posts
of this excellent thread.

[Lisais mine]

And does your girl enjoy it, Sir? Mockery can be more devastating
than the pain itself or the offensive names. I think the personal
element is very important here - as it is shown in other posts
of this excellent thread.

yeah- she says it's her favorite.

[yama]

yeah- she says it's her favorite.

Just like Lila and me. Thank you, Sir.

[jeanne]

What words get me going....hmmmm. 'girl' is a nice word. 'slut' is so very yummy at certain heated times (like when my body is crying out for an orgasm...and I'm not allowed to beg). 'bitch' even gets me at the right moment.

None of these words feel humiliating to me. They are freeing in a way - permission to be my most primal self.

Humiliating words would be things like 'skin-and-bones', 'old', 'ugly', 'worthless'... Those types of degrading words would hurt. Not in a good way. I often wonder why. I've come to the conclusion that it's pride. I'm proud to be a submissive. I take pride in pleasing my Owner and in being compliant. The objectification aspect of submitting that I find the most satisfying is being His toy. His plaything. As such, I need to feel beautiful and proud.