Quote Originally Posted by Resist View Post
My initial reaction is that "Sir" should be something a sub earns the right to call a dom--not an easy "Yes, I'm submissive," sign.
I'd reverse the phrase above - to me, "sir" is a title the dom earns through his demonstrated behaviors & time spent getting to know him & judge his worth. "Sir" is a term of respect that I certainly wouldn't apply to just anyone, especially not to someone who hasn't earned it in my eyes. And I can count the men to whom I would accord that level of respect on two fingers.