well i didnt mean to imply that if a sub is not a doormat that they are overly controlling of their life.... i am talking about the pure act of dominating a sub. So basically i dont think about the relationship aspect.

like i am a slave thru and thru but in everyday life i am a TOTAL control freak (admittedly not as badly as i was before my Lord) but i can seem like a total bitch sometimes because i am so over bearing at times.... many people get the impression that i am almost arrogant about my abilities because admittedly i do think highly of my intellegence and the few actual abilities that i do... which is one of the reasons i am a slave... i wanna be able to trust someone to take that control from me that is able to... (my Lord is definately able to and put me in my place )

Now what if there is a natural sub/slave is much more relaxed has basic control of their lives in the typical manner but does not nessicarily exude the traits of dominance as much as someone like me does... i admittedly over do it but not the extent i used too at all

Now if You were to dominate both of these two different, yet not the only types, sub/slaves consentually in turn..... which would You think would give You more of that "feeling" whatever it may be that You get when you dominate a sub.... or would it not make a difference...

i ask this because in stories i read on here there is a common theme of the love of dominating someone that is so dominant in everday life