Quote Originally Posted by moptop View Post
But, I certainly don't cum as often as he thinks I do: yeah I fake 'em. Or rather... I make a lot of noise because it IS good - and because it helps me get past my barrier, helps me build up to it. Only sometimes he doesn't judge the noises right and thinks I am already cumming when I'm not, tells me to cum and then I can't but I don't want to disappoint... etc. So, hey - it doesn't work every time. So what? Sometimes I wait till he's gone and give myself a swifty! What I DON'T do is spend hours analysing and agonising over it. This leads only to more mental blocks.
Thank you for some very good, honest advice in this post, moptop. Welcome back, btw.

But I loved this bit - waiting till 'he's' gone and doing the business yourself shall henceforth in my mind be known as 'giving yourself a swifty'.