I think it's interesting that a conversation that i did not have, a talk with my pet and a post on a forum. I never thought is would have so much controversy.

I can see both sides of the coin and even though I have been round the scene for a long time, I have always wondered about the insecurities side of things. Cause some Dom’s will think I’m insecure just by posting this thread, but that’s not why i did it. I did it because it's an issue i seem to come across more and more.

The reasons behind a ban of speaking to other Dom’s that has come up are interesting to me, because it never crossed my mind to ban my pet from talking to anyone.
I can also see how some Dom’s would use it as a way of protecting there subs from harm of others, especially if they are new to the lifestyle.

Even though I have been doing this for 10 years, i still think there is a lot to learn from the older more experienced members of the library and sometime the new members have great ideas. With that said i think that a subs opinion at times is more important than a Dom’s because the sub it on the receiving end. But I do value both opinions to learn from and give me a fuller picture.

El x