Quote Originally Posted by manshimajin
Nikita you and Mariko seem to share something when you describe anal sex as a profound and submissive act - I now understand much better from Mariko's comments how she saw this act. It is interesting to think of submission as something that is given not taken. We had a read of some of your stories to and enjoyed them a lot.
The submissive act of acquiesing to anal sex, being used orally, or to take pain, is voluntary. The fact that we hand over the use of ourselves to our dominant makes it more profound than the act itself.

Thank you for the compliment of enjoying my stories.

Quote Originally Posted by manshimajin
nikita san say you are almost addicted anal sex. I am do anal sex sometime for pleasing man who do seem like this type sex very much. but still even now find quite difficult and bit pain when men try enter me. how do you manage make so you feel more comfortable so be addict for it?
I believe this was your question for me, Mariko. Nikita san...I love it! *gg*

I prepare, mentally and physically for anal sex. Mental preparation is basically foreplay in the mind, thinking about being opened, helpless to stop it, and being denied orgasm...etc. Sometimes I do this absentmindedly. whew! is it hot in here?

Physical preparation involves the use of a plug before hand, perhaps as part of the scene, combined with giving oral service, whipping, flogging, breast torture or whatever is on the menu.

There may be times when preparation with a plug is impossible, so, trust in your partner and lots of lube are necessary. For example, in your case, Manshimajin san can prepare you before you submit to other men, as part of his mastery over you.

If I am bondaged, my husband prepares me, using his fingers to apply lube or saliva with his tongue or fingers, or buttplug. Lube is a must for entry.

Once you have associated arousal/orgasm with anal play, and do it often, your rectal muscles should be able relax for entry.

Jeez, this sounds so clinical, but it is really hot.

For me, anal sex is the best, most explosive, multi-orgasmic experience, even more so when combined with BDSM. Once I'm in sub-space, my body responds automatically with obedience and passion. I can go on and on, even if it's on mental orgasms alone and not physically.

Butt, that's another story.