Is it a sign of weakness ?

[ShadePayne]

No, it isn't weakness, it is weakness when you don't ask. One word of advise, if you are new to this do some on line research. Don't expect to be "spoon feed" everything you need to know. For most doms don't offer DOM 101.

Once information or advice is given take it and weight it, make that information work for you. For how it works for one may not be suited for the next. One other thing the information or advise you are requesting form someone is their views and they shouldn't be judges on their views for like i said it works for them. They can only light the dark path and send you in the right direction.

ShadePayne
Beloved Pet of MasterStone

[A DELF]

No, it isn't weakness, it is weakness when you don't ask. One word of advise, if you are new to this do some on line research. Don't expect to be "spoon feed" everything you need to know. For most doms don't offer DOM 101.

Once information or advice is given take it and weight it, make that information work for you. For how it works for one may not be suited for the next. One other thing the information or advise you are requesting form someone is their views and they shouldn't be judges on their views for like i said it works for them. They can only light the dark path and send you in the right direction.

ShadePayne
Beloved Pet of MasterStone

I consistently read and travel the web about this subject. I do not wish to be spoon-fed as you put it. I just dont want to "walk against traffic" either.