Questions for all the Doms and Dommes ?

[MISTRESS H]

When you are dominating your sub or slave, what is going thru your mind? And how does it make you feel?

To be honest, there are several things that go through my mind, it all has to do with What, When, Where, and How?

I for one, do not have the slave/sub bound, He knows his place, and what he is to do when being punished. But when I am punishing him/them, I wonder if it is enough, does it make the point that they need to learn.

For me, that is the most impotant thing, of course I know depending on the slave/sub and his/her taste for pain, that 50% of the time, it is just a result of their own needs and desires.

Again, the point is to instill obedience, formost and utmost, not just the pleasure of the Mistress or dom.