Once again,Honesty, and Communication, seem to have saved the day. I hope your date goes well, and that the 2 of you develop into something wonderful. Friendship is a Good base to build from. As you already seem to have the H/C aspects of it down (YAY!), the D/s should be much easier. If the pair of you do decide to go for the gusto, I hope the collar never chafes, nor the leash ever strained.