question about what to look for in Dom/sub

[Midnytedreams]

What I searched for and found was a submissive woman who , knew herself her wants desires , When I found her wants desires were mine I went after her , and made her mine.
that does not mean it was easy finding her, there were many whom I searched through some lost, some fake playing the part, not having a clue about submission , fire told me to go to hell the first time we met , I found that intriquing as I really wasn't playing but she had just left a bad relationship. building trust is slow many take it as a weakness in a Dom , those I passed over, I wasn't looking for a play mate I was looking for a soul mate someone to share the journey with.

[brwneydgirl]

What I searched for and found was a submissive woman who , knew herself her wants desires , When I found her wants desires were mine I went after her , and made her mine.
that does not mean it was easy finding her, there were many whom I searched through some lost, some fake playing the part, not having a clue about submission , fire told me to go to hell the first time we met , I found that intriquing as I really wasn't playing but she had just left a bad relationship. building trust is slow many take it as a weakness in a Dom , those I passed over, I wasn't looking for a play mate I was looking for a soul mate someone to share the journey with.

Okay, I debated about whether to respond to this thread and this quote specifically but after reading through it a few times, I feel compelled.

I really am hoping against hope that this partial quote I've highlighted is not a true deterrent. Although I'm sure there are folks out there who want nothing to do with someone just beginning to navigate these deep waters, I would argue that finding someone who has "not a clue about submission" but recognizes themselves as a submissive is a terrific find. Being the guiding hand (with a firm hand ) could be a very rewarding experience, I think.

Again, is it for every dominant? No and there is no judgement about that. But to cast aside someone simply because they're not sure of every corrrect step to take and move to make seems like a waste of a perfectly fine, albeit "green" sub.