On The Subject Of Training

[Archeon]

satisfied.....tie ur friend down, and beat her with a stick until she realises what an idiot she is being lol

On the subject of training, it does almost invariably seem to be inexperienced doms looking for a way to get their foot in the door and they feel it is the "right thing to say" in this situation.

The truth of the matter is, "training" from one dom will teach a sub to be what that dom wants, if the sub gets another dom in the future, it is likely a lot of what they have been trained to do will be undesirable to the new dom. (hurray for using the word dom 4 times in one sentence!)

The main problem this actually has for the community, is that when a bad/new/predator/inexperienced dom "trains" a new sub, quite a lot of the time what they are being told to do and trained to do is not related to BDSM or gives across a very negative image of the lifestyle, and usually a false image of the lifestyle, putting people off permanently after one bad experiance. (e.g. well i tried it, and didnt enjoy it with him because he made me do X against my will, therefore it must not be for me)

Regards,

Arch

[satisfied]

satisfied.....tie ur friend down, and beat her with a stick until she realises what an idiot she is being lol

Regards,

Arch

i told her that if she wants some RL experience to what it feels like to be a slave then she is welcome to come here. That while she is not interested in poly, she could get the same feeling and experience in a safe environment. She has her mind set on going for some dumb reason. i truly hope that it never happens.