What A Bad Combo, and What Can I DO?

[Saheli]

Is it really important to your husband that you swallow? Some people just don't like it. Here's a stupid question, maybe, but does it gross you out when you can't see it or taste it? I mean, he comes in you, right? What if he came on you? Would that be OK? You could suck him until he's ready to come, and then he could come somewhere on your body. Somewhere you couldn't see. That's hot and submissive.

No, it just grosses me out to feel it in my mouth or to see it, cause it's so thick and slimy. It isn't important to him, really, but I know he would enoy it more if I did. I've let him cum on me before...I have no problem with that. I just hate feeling limited...it's embarrassing to gag.

[brwneydgirl]

I just hate feeling limited...it's embarrassing to gag.

I understand what you're saying with this statement...I have gagged before on come and it is embarrassing. (To be honest, though, he didn't seem to mind at all-- )

And I've know quite a few (vanilla) men who thought this was quite an important thing...to be swallowed and although you *could* always say no, it would be nice to be able to have the option and feel confident.

I really do wish I could help you.