Hi
This is the first time in this forum, but actually I got a bit irritated by this thread so I just had to replay.
Where is the high roof in this? Isn't this a forum that is expected to have a bit more room than a vanilla forum? And for me bdsm is not about capital or non capital letters; it's about pleasure and learning to know my self and my partner on the sexual level that turns us on.
So I think you have some great topics you’ve have touched BDSM_Tourguide. Having a relationship were bdsm is a part of the sexual act it’s important to have a good solid grip on the reality of live and a most of all respect your partner. Doesn’t matter if you’re partner is the top or the bottom. And most of all you’ve got to respect your self and what you stand for. Dominant/sado person that don’t respect or have a good feeling about he or her self is a danger, and the same goes for a sub/maso.
Some my find that Titles sprite up their fantasy and that to not refer to them selves as an first person, but please respect that others don’t. We are different and it’s important to find out what pleasures us with out getting “codes and rules” thrown back.