I can't really say I had that problem, in part because I got a lot of my dom-needs satisfied at work (90-ish subordinates working for me.)

I know that what I would do is intensify the weekend activities. You can also jump the daily routines up several notches.

When I visited my girl last summer, wake up time included dom and submissive behavior (make and serve coffee, then hand-to-hair and mouth-to-cock, then forced to ride to her orgasm.) The intensity of the demands and her (trained?) hair trigger response to being used helps keep her on schedule and to work on time. Weeknights were far more vanilla but the overtones were there. Weekends were filled (she has a very active community) and varied. Munches, workshops, visiting kinky friends, parties. And if we stayed in, she was used often. Well, she was used often regardless.