Those stange people...

[bbbbadbetty]

It's sad that the general perception is that those who engage in BD or SM or all of the above must be damaged in some way. The truth of the matter is that humans are highly sexual beings and it's only the fear of being judged that stops so many from exploring their true desires.

The other sad part about all of this is that for those of us who do embrace our sexuality, we must live a double life because of these other stifled individuals. You are wise to be cautious about who you share this information with - better safe than sorry. Meanwhile, you have friends and likeminded individuals in communities such as this.

[oww-that-hurt]

It's sad that the general perception is that those who engage in BD or SM or all of the above must be damaged in some way. The truth of the matter is that humans are highly sexual beings and it's only the fear of being judged that stops so many from exploring their true desires.

The other sad part about all of this is that for those of us who do embrace our sexuality, we must live a double life because of these other stifled individuals. You are wise to be cautious about who you share this information with - better safe than sorry. Meanwhile, you have friends and likeminded individuals in communities such as this.

Dang it, NOW I find out I'm damaged! My Wartenburg wheel is in shipment, too.
Sorry, I had to toss that out. It really should arrive this week.
But, it is true, so many of us (count me in there) must lead double lives. At least I'm retired so I don't worry about fellow employees coming across what I enjoy, or want to enjoy, or think of.