I suppose my purpose is to rant(!) and to pose the question, what can I expect from here on out. Am I, by involving myself with someone who is open to this going to face the same sort of dangers time and time again. Should I be concerned when some one so brazenly jeopardizes my privacy? Has this ever happened to anyone else?

relationship wise I have made the decision to no longer speak to her. But there is all this other stuff all these other things which I worry about.