Quote Originally Posted by LovesKink View Post
why are so called experienced Dom's asking newbie submissives to think of their own punishments i have to ask ???
Because subs are often far harder on themselves than I would be... in an online situation. If it can't be a hands-on punishment, I more interested in her own motivators than in the actual punishment....

AND if she isn't harsh enough, that's a second punishable offense.

I do not, however, let her go elsewhere asking for help... that provides no additional value to the scene.