That's a fair scenario, one that I thought of before. Many times actually. I often wondered what if I end up with someone completely vanilla, or even someone who loses interest in sex. I would be completely and utterly pissed off, to be honest.

But as I said before, I did have some experience hearing from someone that she wanted someone else. And that while we were together, she wasn't entirely faithful to me. It was one of the worst experiences ever, and we were just dating for a little over a year.

Can I do the same with a woman who is my wife, mother of my children? I can say at this moment, that while I have a huge interest in bdsm, it is simply an aspect of my life. I have too many things in my life to throw it all away for one thing.

The affairs that Tiger had, if he were my friend, or my brother, or whoever, I'd be siding with his wife (is it ex-wife now?). Whether it's the right answer, I don't know, but it's my answer.

There are other things that I guess would need to be considered, which we don't know. Was the marraige running on fumes? Were they together for the sake of the kids? I mean if that were the case, then in their hearts they were already broken up, and all of this is simply unfortuante for Tiger.

Will I ever change my mind about this? Maybe. But I hope not, I hope I don't ever put the woman of my life through that sort of pain. My parents are my role models for a happy marraige, and if I can be half the man my father is, I'd have consider myself an accomplished person.