Well as luck would have it, I have a boss that is not only Dominant but he uses his dominance a bit further than you. This ought to make you feel normal again.

I first told him I was into it and then he admitted that he was into it too. So we knew the rules safe, sane and concentual.

Ethical. Not according to the law. He actually does swat me on the ass when I get things wrong. He does yell at me and spell out the consequences for failure. He is gay folks so there is where it is sorta all innocent since there is nothing sexual to it. It gives us both pleasure and we can have it all day every day. He knows that I am Dominant like he is for the most part but he is a very Dominant male and I like giving in to him.

I think we all flirt sometimes, for example, and it is all in good fun but it is how far you take it that changes things. Be true to your own though since they get priority.