Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[his_girl]

Hi all!! I am Bri and am a submissive. I am in a wonderful relationship with my dominant. I actually introduced him into this lifestyle and he is an absolute natural. When I first met him, I saw the dominance, and while I wasn't very experienced in being a submissive and had been unfortunate enough to be with several men that thought they were God's gift to submissive women, they were horribly wrong. Ever since I introduced my Sir into this world a year ago, we have helped eachother grow in our roles as Dominant and Submissive. If you have any questions feel free to ask!!

[flying66]

See I was looking though my old posts and realized I hadn't posted in this thread yet... hi all! I've been here since '07, at time of writing that would be about 2 1/2 years.

I seem to not have posted much... which is strange as I am a post whore when it comes to forums.

My name is Sharon, just call me by my screen name, I'm fine with that. I've always been a submissive, even before I hit puberty, I have memories of playing games where I get tied to a chair with tape over my mouth from when I was 3 years old.

Learning what bdsm actually was in my early teens was more like "oh, so that's what they call it, I didn't know there was an actual name for the kind of stuff I like" than "gee that sounds interesting, I might want to try that"

I've had play partners that I just played with, various friends and such... like I had one friend who was very good with rope. Anyways, after some of that I realized that I felt real empty and alone after... even moreso than before we did anything so I figured at that point I needed to find a Dom that I could be romantically involved with.

I did find one, that lasted just over a year, it didn't work out for various reasons, some of you know him (he's on this site lol) Currently I'm with another, and it's going great.

[SlaveAllura]

Hi I'm SlaveAllura. I've been into BDSM for most of my life. I'm 25 years old and have been collared to my master for only about a month. We've been together for almost 2years. We live together with his fiance and my best friend of 8 years(this is the same person). We are quickly learning the boundries and all we can about the s/m lifestyle.

It's great finding a haven like this because most of my family doesn't accept my lifestyle choice so I mostly stick with my best friend and my master. I gets lonely sometimes though.

[Elissma]

I am Master Lobsters Fiance. I am some what submissive, not as much as Allura... I love to be whipped and demeaned but i don't follow orders very well. I am by nature a protagonist... But that's what makes it interesting i guess...

[dirtylittlebitchx]

hi ya'll, i'm dirtylittlebitchx and i recently got into exploring the scene a few months ago. my online "boyfriend" i guess could be called my first dom, though he wasn't much of one and am now currently in training with someone i met on collarme.com a few days ago.

i've always dreamed of living in a tpe relationship, completely 1950s household and whatnot.

[summerBreeze{EDQ}]

Manou is the name I choose to use here as I dont think its important for others to know my real name unless I know them very well. Im 50 and new to this. Im in an O/L relationship with a younger master.Its taken me a while to get around to posting here but im feeling more comfortable now.
Both master and I are married to other people and our situation is complicated and things have been a little bumpy. we became really good friends before we even talked about his interests and I wonder now if he was testing to see if I would be shocked. I think he was suprised that I was happy to talk about it and ask him questions. So he gave me this site as a resource to explore and educate myself before we got to into the serious training. If there was any possibility of R/Lf with him I think I would truly be complete . I absolutely adore him and am honored to serve him.

[kristinemae]

well all, im kristinemae. im from canada and yes i think its the greatest country in the world for me. to each their own i hope. I am a submissive but not actively playing. I'm not here looking for a Dom, when i find him or if i find him then cool but i dont do the real life well. anyhow, hope your all good and nice to see a few old familiar faces
kristine

[JunieMonster]

hi all, i'm junie and have known that i'm a sub for over 10 years now. i've had some bad rl experiences (mostly because i wasn't mature enough) and i've had some great rl/ol experiences. i have not been involved at all in the lifestyle. i'm currently without a Dom and i'm looking forward to meeting people on here.

[98tiller]

I am a 38yoa male,I only have sporadic play expierience. Most of my fantasies revolve around forced fem , though serving a Domme in any way makes my pants feel funny. I view this as an escape and not a hardcore lifestyle change. I do wish anyone who does live this as a lifstyle only the best, i just like to escape into this world from my real one.

I did pick up this list from one of the other threads:

Abrasion: no 2
Age play: no 4
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 5
Anal plugs (large): yes 5
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no 5
Animal roles: no 4
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders):no 4
Asphyxiation: no 1
Auctioned for charity: no no
Bathroom use control: no 1
Bestiality: no no
Beating (soft): yes 4
Beating (hard): no 2
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 3
Breast/chest bondage: no 4
Breath control: no 3
Branding: no no
Boot worship: no 4
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): no 4
Bondage (public, under clothing): no 3
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 5
Brown showers (scat):no no
Cages (locked inside of):no 3
Caning: no 1
Catheterization: no no
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 4
Chastity belts: no 1
Chauffeuring: no 3
Choking: no 4
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit:n/a
Clothespins body: no 4
Cock worship: no 5(strap-on)
Collars (worn in private): no 5
Collars (worn in public):no no
Competitions (with other Subs): no 1
Corsets (wearing):n0 4
Cuffs: n0 5
Cuffs (metal): no 5
Cutting: no no
Dilation: no ?
Double penetration: no 5 mouth and ass with strap=on)
Electricity: no 4
Enemas: yes 5
Enforced chastity: no 2
Examinations (physical): no 5
Exercise (forced/required): no 4
Exhibitionism (friends): no 4
Exhibitionism (strangers): no no
Eye contact restrictions: no 2
Face slapping: no 2
Fantasy abandonment: no 1
Fantasy rape: no 5(strap-on)
Fantasy forced deep throat: n0 5 (strap-on)
Fantasy forced cunt licking: yes 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 5 (strap-on)
Fantasy gang-rape: no 4(strap-on)
Fisting (anal): no no
Fisting (vaginal):n/a
Flogging: no 4
Following hand signals: no 2
Following orders: yes 4
Foot worship:n0 4
Forced dressing: no 5 (forced fem)
Forced homosexuality: no no
Forced masturbation: yes 5
Forced nudity (private): no 5
Forced nudity (around others): no no
Forced servitude: no 5
Full head hoods: no 5
Gags (cloth):no 5
Gags (penis shaped): no 5
Gags (rubber): no 5
Gags (tape): no 4
Gates of Hell: no 2
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): no no
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 5
Given away to another Dom (perm): no no
Given away to another Domme (perm): no no
Golden showers: no 5
Greetings rituals: no 3
Hairbrush spankings: yes 4
Hair pulling: yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): fingering yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 2
Harnessing (leather): no 5
Harnessing (rope): no 5
Having food chosen for you: no 1
Having clothing chosen for you: no 5 (forced ffem)
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): no no
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only):n/a
Head (receiving fellatio male only): yes 5
High heel worship: no 5
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 4
Hot oils (on genitals): yes 5
Hot waxing: yes 4
Housework (doing): yes 3
Human puppy dog: no 5
Humiliation (private): no 2
Humiliation (public): no no
Hypnotism: no 5
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: no 4
Initiation rites: no 2
Injections: no 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 2
Interrogations: no 1
Kidnapping: no 3
Kneeling: no 3
Leather clothing: no 4
restraints chains: no 5
restraints leather: yes 5
restraints rope: yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: no 1
Licking (non-sexual): no 4
Manacles & Irons: no 4
Manicures (giving): no 4
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: no 5

Modeling for erotic photos: no no
Modeling for erotic videos: no no
Mouth bits: no 5
Mummification: no 5
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 5
Nipple weights: no 4
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 5
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 4
Orgasm denial: no 2
Orgasm control: no 2
Outdoor scenes: no 5
Outdoor sex: yes 5
Phone sex (serving Dom): no 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no no
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 3
Piercing (permanent): no 1
Prison scenes: no 1
Pony slave: no 4
Public exposure: no no
Public tasks: no 1
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 4
Pussy worship: yes 5
Riding crops: yes 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 3
Rituals: no 2
Religious scenes: no 2
Restrictive rules on behavior: no 3
Rubber/latex clothing: yes 5!!!!!!!!!!
Rope body harness: no 4
Saran wrapping: no 5
Scratching – getting: yes 3
Scratching – giving: no 2
Sensory deprivation: no 5
Serving: no 5
Serving as art: no 3
Serving as ashtray: no 2
Serving as furniture: no 2
Serving as a maid: no 5
Serving as toilet: no 1
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 4
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 5 domme only
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no no
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): no no
Shaving (body hair): yes 5
Shaving (head hair): no no
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 5
Sleep deprivation: no no
Sleep-sacks: no 5
Slutty clothing (private): no 5
Slutty clothing (public): no no
Spanking in private: no 5
Spanking in public: no no
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 3
Spanking pleasure: no 5
Spandex clothing: no 5
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 5 in scene
Speculums (Anal): no 3
Speculums (vaginal): n/a
Spreader bars: no 5
Standing in corner: no 2
Stocks (adjustable): no 4
Stocks (fixed): no 4
Straight jackets: no 4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): yes 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): n/a
Strapping (full body beating): no 1
Suspension (upright); no 5
Suspension (inverted): no 4
Suspension (horizontal): no 5
Supplying new partners for Dom: no no
Swallowing semen: no 5 (mine only)
Swallowing urine: no 3
Swapping (with one other couple):no 4
Swinging (multiple couples): no 2
Tattooing: no no
Teasing: yes 5
Tickling: yes 3
Triple penetration: n/a
Triple penetration by 3 males: no no
Uniforms: no 5
Including others: no 3
Vaginal dildo: n/a
Verbal humiliation: no 1
Vibrator on genitals: yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): no 4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 3
Video (watching others): yes 5
Video (recordings of you): no no
Water torture: no 2
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 3
Whipping: no 3
Wooden paddles: no 4
Wrestling: no 4

[cherri]

Hi, my name is cherri, and i'm very new here. i am a subby girl with masochistic tendencies (i believe the popular phrase is 'pain slut') and i am bi-sexual. i have never had a true Dom/me IRL, however i have had two online Dommes, neither of them working out in the long run.

I am currently in a relationship (3 years now) with a wonderful woman who isn't a true Domme, but has a dominant personality and who indulges me by RPing lighter BDSM scenes with my on a regular basis. i tend to be shy, although in the right mood, i can also be very chatty and find that the semi anonymity of online sites allows me to be more out going then normal.

xoxo
cherri

[blazz]

hi ya all....

i'm blazz from malaysia. a male sub.... rather new here... and exploring while learning from the xperienced.

[boby_bdsm]

Wow you are great with the accessories

[boby_bdsm]

Im prefer to be the slave for two lesbo girls...

[boby_bdsm]

can i be your dom?

[Ozme52]

Wow you are great with the accessories

Im prefer to be the slave for two lesbo girls...

can i be your dom?

Quote buttons. More than just something to diddle with on the screen.

[ditzyblondegirl]

LOL Oz to funny

[bdsmsub69]

I've been fantasizing about being tied up and stuff like that for years upon years yet could never find anyone who wanted to do it. I'm a 25/m from the bay area of Cali. How could i change the fact i'm still a bdsm virgin?

[Izzydoodle]

Hey, I'm Izzie. I'm new to all this but I suppose I've known that this is what I like for a while now. I'm not totally sure what I want or what I'm looking for. I don't think i want a 24/7 type relationship, I'm eager but I'm wary, I think of myself as a feminist but I'm naturally submissive, and I'd like to make friends, learn more about BDSM, about my own limits and all that. There

[AmberMae123]

hello my name is amber. the idea of being submissve fasinates me, but I have yet to really experience it. My boyfriend just kinda give me what i want, even though I tell him not too =(

but im pretty new to all this and would love to meet new people to talk too

[alittlecuriousgirl]

hey everyone!
i'm haley, but alittlecuriousgirl is my screen name. addressing me as either one will do. i'm completely new to BDSM and so far i can sum up a few ultimately important details about myself
a) not a fan of golden showers. just yuck.
b) i have no interest in starting an online dom relationship. why? because from information i've gathered, online dom relationships usually end up in the crapshute. maybe this is incorrect, idk, but right now that's NOT what i'm looking for.
so this leads me to c) i AM looking for a REAL dom, someone who knows what they're talking about and can answer my questions. i'm a shy person naturally, but once i get to know you i'm very easy to talk to. that being said, email is a perfect form of communication for me as of now.
and finally (whew!) d) i hate to put a label on myself or restrict those willing to approach me, but i'm not yet comfortable with a lesbian only relationship. although, if a dominatrix (is that how you spell it?) wants to give me pointers *that's totally cool!!*. so, in short, once i'm comfortable in this lifestyle i will expand my horizons, so to speak. but for now: guys only.

[parasmurf]

Ow hai ^^
My names dave. Ive only actively looked into BDSM for about 1 year now, but now that i look back on my life i realise i have always feel this way. Growing up with 2 older brothers where fighting (abusive and play) has been a daily practise ive come to be farely immune to pain and restraint but it also reminds me of some of the funnest times of my life and i thing that effects why i enjoy it so much.

i havern't had a BDSM partner although in the future it would be nice to have someone i can share this part of my life with. At the moment im just lookinf to make friends and meet people with this same interest and to learn from it. If i get a chance to find someone to experiment with thats even better.

In some cases i find online rp, etc to be hard since it's no realistic so i dont really verge into that side.

I am a uni student studying web design and my vanilla passions are music (i sing, play bass/reg guitar, and alittle drums and piano), video games (i am a wow player amung other things) and moto/mountain bikes.

Im 18 turning 19 this year, and im a straight guy. Abit on the larger size but my new lifestyle that ive gained since uni is allowing me to be more active and its having positive responses. Two things i dont really like about myself is my build (tall and big) and my hair. Blonde locks/curls are annoying but it's hard to find a hairstyle i like and that suits me.

[craveshumiliation]

ok my intro...

im craveshumilition, craves, ch or some people still call me princess my original name.
i answer to most things some people in the chat have their own nickname for me ie cs or cravy. aslong as i know who Y/your talking to ill answer to anything.


atm i am an o/l sub and im happy with that it works for me i am in a vanilla relationship which my o/l Dom knows about and He doesn't mind.

i'm so rubbish at introductions if Y/you have any questions im normally always in the chat if not leave a visitor message on my profile xxx

[His little one]

I hate introducing myself lol. Anyways, ummmm, online I go by the name lil. My Husband of 12 years is my Master. Only over the last several years has the D/s dynamic become part of our relationship. I have two small children who like to try and find out what they can do to send mom to the looney bin. That's really about it I guess...

[bdsmsub69]

i'm new to this type of world but been curious about it a long long long long long time. no one has ever givin me the chance to serve them. i'm lookin for a domme in the bay area. anyone out there to help me out?

[Ozme52]

I've been fantasizing about being tied up and stuff like that for years upon years yet could never find anyone who wanted to do it. I'm a 25/m from the bay area of Cali. How could i change the fact i'm still a bdsm virgin?

You live in what may well be one of the top ten most active communities in the nation.

Check out yahoo and google groups, and fetlife, for local munches, seminars, and parties. (Starting in that order.)

Take your time, but no worries, you can end your bdsm virginity as quickly as you wish.

[Ozme52]

Hey, I'm Izzie. I'm new to all this but I suppose I've known that this is what I like for a while now. I'm not totally sure what I want or what I'm looking for. I don't think i want a 24/7 type relationship, I'm eager but I'm wary, I think of myself as a feminist but I'm naturally submissive, and I'd like to make friends, learn more about BDSM, about my own limits and all that. There

You'll find lots of conversations here about feminism and the bottom line is being a feminist means having the right to make your own decision about how you want to live your life.

If that's in submission, more power to you.

P.S. No one gets to tell you it's a once and final decision.

[Ozme52]

...and welcome to all.

[brwneydgirl]

^Hmmm...Let's start a betting pool...is he submissive or slave?

[jeanne]

^Hmmm...Let's start a betting pool...is he submissive or slave?

[brwneydgirl]

I figured you'd get a laugh, jeanne...even if no one else does.