Why is humiliation a turn on?

[His little one]

My last post came after being called away mid-writing... and there's far more conversation since.... apologies if it seems misplaced...



Perhaps I have a simple answer to that statement for you.

Think of the reverse. What ever your dominant's primary pleasure, whether it is a spanking, or whipping, hot wax, or just humiliating you... does he get hard because of it? Does he become lustful doing it to you? Is he having a good time? Do you love him any less because he likes doing it to you?

If you can love a dominant for consensually enjoying beating you, or debasing you, or tying you up, or whatever, then why wouldn't he love you more for letting him do it.

It never occured to me to look at it like that but it puts things in a differient light. Thank you.